Sexy is a woman who can genuinely love and appreciate herself just the way she is. Unfortunately, there are a lot of beautiful women who haven’t loved themselves the way they should be.
To every woman out there, remember that the strongest actions for a woman is to love herself, be herself and shine amongst those who never believed she could. So women, learn to love yourselves by doing these seven ways:
1. Care more about your own opinions regarding yourself
It’s your life, you have full control of it. You don’t need anyone’s approval on how to live your life. You don’t need to fit into the society’s standards. Because when you are trying to fit, you are changing yourself into someone you are not. Set your own standards and expectations and do the best you can to fulfill them.
2. Know exactly what is worth it
You should know and have a clear idea of what is worth it and what is not. Your main job is to make yourself happy, not everybody else. If you have to change yourself for the sake of other people, you don’t love yourself.
Your happiness is what really matters, anything else that does not make you happy, let it go.
3. Keep a journal
You can express anything you feel in a journal, freely. You don’t have to worry about people reading your journal. Your happiness, worries, fear or anger, tell everything to your journal. When you keep a journal, it is like keeping a recorded conversation you have with yourself.
You can only love yourself when you know yourself. How can you love someone you know nothing about?
4. Take care of your body
You’ve heard the saying “your body is your temple”, your mind and your soul belong in your body. That’s why you have to take care of your body. Make healthy habits your lifestyle. Observe what makes your body, mind and soul strong and healthy.
Relax your body, eat healthy foods, find time to meditate, go hiking, just do things you are interested in.
5. Be kind
It is impossible to live by yourself in this world. You always need other people. Therefore, you should learn to be kind to others. Kindness is one of the keys to happiness. Be happy, create a meaningful life.
6. Spend time with loving people
Healthy relationships are great for your life. Of course you cannot always choose who you want to spend time with, especially when it comes to work. But you can choose your own friends.
Choose great friends for the sake of your personal relationships. Great friends are those who support you, care about you and accept you as you are. When you feel loved, it will be easier to love yourself more.
7. Life is all about balance
Thomas Merton once said, “Happiness is not a matter of intensity but of balance and order and rhythm and harmony”. A good life is all about balance. You cannot just work all the time or have fun all the time. To feel loved and loveable, every woman should have balance in their lives.